What To Give, When
Mention buying fine jewelry to a lot of guys, and their mind goes to “engagement ring.” But relax. You can start out slow. Women enjoy fine jewelry for a lot of reasons – not all of them deeply symbolic. Yes, the permanence of fine jewelry makes it ideal for a grand occasion. But you can choose from a wide range of designs and prices. So you can surprise her with fine jewelry just about any time.
Dating
1 month – You want to explore things farther.
Tell her with a pair of contemporary earrings. You should know by now if her ears are pierced or not. Tip: Choose something close to a style you’ve seen her wear. If she’s sporty or professional, simple hoops or studs. Casual and flirty? Something larger or longer that will move when she does.
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3 months – Suddenly she's more important than your XBOX.
The perfect time for a contemporary bracelet. Again, consider her taste by choosing something simple and classic, or casual and fun. You’re trying to say you like her the way she is. Also, most women prefer either white or yellow metals. Show her you’ve been paying attention to what she likes.
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6 months – This could be serious, but you’re still testing the waters.
A contemporary necklace with an interesting pendant makes a personal statement. (Bonus points: it hangs over her heart.) From retro to modern, there’s something to match her style. If she wears suits and collared shirts, select a shorter length – perhaps a 16" choker. Plunging necklines? Go for a longer chain, big guy.
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1 year – Even you know you’re in love.
Time for a bigger statement. Like a pair of white gold diamond hoop earrings, for instance. If the two of you like to paint the town, consider something from our contemporary jewelry collection that will dazzle the crowd when you’re out. If she’s into quiet time at home, something simpler – like Akoya pearl earrings – can be worn during the day or at work.
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Engaged
What do you do when it’s official? Well, there’s the ring, of course.
After she’s said “yes,” though, there are a million things to do. A token from you to wear on the Big Day will be especially appreciated.
Diamonds and pearls are traditional choices – and yes, even non-traditional brides can turn sentimental about such things. Ask her what fine jewelry she plans to wear, or enlist one of her friends who can describe the wedding dress. In any case, it’s usually best to present your gift some time before the wedding itself. (Check here for more suggestions Special Occasions.)
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Married
It’s true what they say, that marriage is an adventure. And every good adventure is different. You’ll have to find your own milestones to celebrate. From time to time, though, make sure you stop to say you’re glad you’re in this thing together.
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